Be the Right One

One of the most important decisions you will ever make is whether you will get married and to whom. It is a decision that will significantly shape the course of your life. As you enter into the “critical moment” of your life, remember that the success of your potential future marriage is largely dependent upon the choices you make now.

Have you ever given much thought to what it would be like to be married someday, or whether or not you will get married in the future?*
- Yes
- No
If so, what kind of person do you hope to marry? How would you describe this person?*

Imagine meeting the man or woman of your dreams. The person is funny, warm, humble, and generous – everything you’ve ever hoped for in a potential husband or wife. If the person did not find similar positive character qualities in you, how do you suppose things would turn out and why?*

Have you ever noticed that some people are really into themselves, and others aren’t? Look at the two basic types of people below: self-centered and other-centered.
Which type of person would you rather hang around with?*
- Self Centered
- Others Centered
Which type of person would you rather marry?*
- Self Centered
- Others Centered
Which type of person would you rather be?*
- Self Centered
- Others Centered